Breakups

Assalamualaikum
Lately I've been dealing with break-up stories from friends back in Malaysia and here in Korea
I've never been in a relationship before so I don't really know how a break up is supposed to be handled or how painful it is to lose someone who once love us back, because honestly I've only experienced one-sided love so far, and that's painful enough so I can't imagine the pain a breakup gives you.
But isn't the best way to handle it all is the same?
The best key of all is Redha.
And to have redha in your heart, never ever ever ever ask the question of "what if"
That is a question that will end up hurting you.
Do not search for an answer that you won't be able to get.
And if you're still searching for it, stop.

Jodoh itu rahsia Allah.
Kalau Allah dah tetapkan jodoh untuk kita, siapa2 pun orang tu, Dia sajalah yang tahu
Macammana kita rasa macam nak mati pun sebab kekasih kita break dgn kita, kalo dah bukan jodoh kita, kejar macammana pun tak dapat juga. Kalau Allah dah tentukan seorang yang lebih baik daripada kekasih kita tu, siapa kita nak membantah? Allah itu Maha Mengetahui
Suami isteri yang dah berkahwin 20 tahun lebih pun boleh bercerai, apa pula kekasih yang tiada ikatan HALAL?
Diberi peluang untuk tahu awal, bersyukur, alhamdulillah disedarkan awal. Ambil peluang tu ucap syukur dan doa biar ditemukan dengan orang yang lebih baik.
Bercinta dengan manusia, jangan sampai lupa cinta pada Allah.
Kalau  rasa sakit putus tu boleh bawa kepada mati, istighfar banyak-banyak, ingat ini semua baru kat dunia. Dah cukup ke amalan kita untuk dibawa kat akhirat nanti?
Dugaan itu datang daripada Allah, jadi kembali pada Dia, minta bantuan pada Dia yang Maha Kuasa untuk ringankan beban kita, tenangkan hati kita, dekatkan lagi kita dengan Dia.

Maybe people will say that it's easier for me to say these things because I've never experienced it.
Yes alhamdulillah I've never experienced them, nauzubillah minta dijauhkan rasa sakit tu.
But before we feel like dying because of our lover who doesn't have any HALAL relationship with us yet, did you actually live because of them? Were you dead before you met them?
If you live well enough before you met them, with your family and friends, why can't you live without them?
There was a song,
"sayang sayang Allah, sayang sayang nabi, sayang sayang ayah, sayang sayang ibu, Allah"
You can see the priority you should have in your life in that song alone.
Please know where you stand in as a Muslim. If you put someone else above Allah S.W.T, let's all reflect back to ourselves.
I'm always praying for my friends' happiness
Still is and will always do.
I love you all!!
Be strong my friends!

Assalamualaikum